I have learned to try to deal with the problem prior to bed and if it cannot be resolved then to deal with it the next day...push it aside until you can think clearly...and once done then take action...sometimes we let our emotions get involved with the solution and at times it is not the proper solution in dealing with the problem...I am working hard on not reacting and thinking things through...it is always nice to have someone as a sounding board so that you may vent...and once the venting is completed then set a day aside to calm and to think rationally...ya see I know all this but still have a hard time doing it all the time...but I am coming along and working on that...seems things are flowing easier without allowing my emotions get involved with something I need to make a decision on...yeaaaaaa me as I pat myself on the back...image